“If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together there is something you must always remember, you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we're apart I'll always be with you.”

~Winnie the Pooh


home, sweet home

some changes are on the horizon for the hess family.  without going in to too much detail (because it could go on forever if i get on my soapbox) we are moving.  the county we live in, gwinnett, was going to move carson to yet another school for 2nd grade so that he could still receive smaller teacher to student ratio and more individualized instruction.  he still needs quite a bit of "hand holding" to get his work done in a timely manor.  he understands the skills, just needs extra help to get it done.  he is our day dreamer, shall we say.  anyway, our home school where brooks goes doesn't have enough resources available to make this happen (imagine me saying that with a very big throat clear and angry face because to me it just doesn't make sense, but i am just one parent and have been told that it would not be the best use of tax payer dollars and that there is no recorded data that moving a kid, with special needs mind you, around from school to school to school is harmful to their self esteem.  i call BS.  just sayin'...i'd like to see how they would handle it if it were their kid being yanked around.  soapbox, sorry.) and the current school he's at (his second school.  kindergarten program was at one school, 1st grade is at another and who the hell knows where 2nd grade is) can't service him either.  the moment i heard the words out of his teacher's mouth i saw the for sale sign in my head and made it a reality just a few days later.  it's a shame that a county so large with so many resources can't make a kid with special needs feel welcome and like he has a place in this community, too.  again, soapbox.  don't even get me started.  this could go on for quite a while. 

so, where are we going (because our house is SOLD!  30 days on the market and it was snatched up--much more to come on leaving good ole deerhaven trail.  many tears have already been shed).  we are moving just a few miles over to buford city.  we have heard so many wonderful things about this school system.  it's actually been ranked the #1 school system in the state of georgia.  and they have seen carson's IEP (individualized educational plan) and are ready to accept him with open arms.  hopefully, no more moving around.  he will see consistent faces from year to year just like it should be.  so we are now a buford wolves family.  the boys will finish out where they are at but come next school year they will be in the same system.  halleluiah, can i get an amen!  we should be breaking ground on our new house any moment now and will be done (fingers crossed and prayers answered) and moved in by the end of august.  we lost out on a house we desperately wanted so we just decided to build on one of the last lots in a wonderful neighborhood.  it is going to be an incredibly stressful time but all well worth it.  we're making a change that's not just for us but for our kids.  i pray every night that it's the right change and that the boys (and shelby one day) thrive in their new school.  all good things!  i just keep saying it to myself, all good things.  

our new home.  or at least where it will be built if it ever stops raining long enough for them to start!



and just so the neighbors know how we roll, shelby decided to undress in broad daylight.

daddy to the rescue.


eight years old

so, this kid is now 8.  

eight years old.  eight years ago i was praying that two boys would hang on just a little bit longer.  it didn't happen, i still don't know why they were born 14 weeks early.  that's another conversation for someone else one day.  i'm going to guess that his "birth" day will be the only one that carson will make an early entrance to.  he is the most laid back, take my time, move at my own pace, day dream all day long kind of kid.  he is the most amazing kid i know.  more things have been thrown his way and how does he handle it?  with a smile.  the most amazing and genuine smile (even with those big ole' goofy front teeth).  his smile is contagious.  just like him.  carson is contagious.  his personality, his innate ability to make people smile is beyond me.  in his 8 years he has been through more and conquered more than most kids i know and always with a smile.  thank you carson, for making me a mom, for paving they way for your younger brother and sister, for being the most loving, sweet, caring, motivated, best hugging, sweetest little voice, 1 lb 15 ounce miracle anyone could ask for.  you have already moved mountains, kid.  keep on, kiddo.  all good things coming your way. 


happy birthday brooks

to our sweet, feisty, strong-willed, unbelievably cute brooks on his sixth birthday,

you came into this world at 4:11 am,  a few weeks early just to make sure your birthday came before your older brother's.  true brooks move.  but it's ok, carson didn't mind.  you are such an incredible son, little brother and big brother.  i remember being pregnant with you and wondering just how you would fit into our family.  we were only used to one little boy, what would life be like with another?  the minute you were born, the second i heard you cry out i knew that you would fit just perfectly.  you were supposed to be ours.  i can't imagine our lives without our little blonde fireball.  and though you gave us a good scare in the beginning you have managed to become one of the cutest little miracles here on earth.  you can test our patience like the best of them but boy are you worth it.  watch out world, with those lashes, dimples, smile and personality nothing will stop you.  we love you to the moon and back and infinity and beyond.  happy "golden" birthday, buddy!

those dimples!  seroiusly.

six years old today.  time is flying.

and the yearly birthday questionnaire.  it's so fun to see how it changes each year.

and guess who's birthday is next...how are these two brothers getting so big?  i can't deal with this.  the other day i was telling the boys i thought they should just stay 5 and 7, that i couldn't deal with them being so big.  brooks responded with, "you still have shelby, she's still little and cute."  thank goodness for that!


baseball, baseball and more baseball

these days consist lately of baseball, baseball and more baseball.  this stuff is no joke down here.  if it's not practice then it's a game.  brooks is getting better and really learning a lot about the game.  i didn't say that he was especially good at it, but he is getting much better.  it's hard to play when we go from 75 and sunny to 40 and windy within a few days.  some games are played with short sleeves and sweating a little and some are played with our ski jacket and gloves and hot hands in his pockets to keep him warm.  spring is crazy here.  not to mention all the other crazy we have going on (more on that later...let's just say there are some big changes coming our way).  all good things.

for right now we are just trucking along with the end of school, baseball, and getting ready for aunt cameron's wedding!!!  it'll be here before we know it and let me tell you, the outfits the kids have are a. dor. able.  so cute.  

cutest little player out there!

i about died when they put him on third base.  thank goodness no balls were hit our way. 

best friends make baseball even better!

and baby sister watching us bat, yelling "bubba!" and "ball!" the whole time

and the best part of my day is watching shelby watch for her brothers to come home on their busses.  she gets so excited and starts waving like mad.  she loves her bubbas and that makes me so happy.



the last few weeks have been all about carson rehabbing and getting back to our "normal," whatever that may be.  carson's legs are getting stronger every day and he's able to do more and more that he never could do before the surgery.  the best thing i think is his range of motion and flexibility.  it used to be so hard for carson to sit on the floor in a comfortable way and now it's no problem!  he's still working hard in PT and working on his walking and figuring out how to use his newly loosened legs but when people ask us if we are happy with our choice and the outcome i say that we couldn't be happier or more proud of him and his "new" legs.  all good things going on, for sure.

one of his exercises he had to do right after surgery.  he could have never sat like this for any length of time before.  

i love finding him sitting like this on his own

now that carson can handle walking on his own we've finally made it back to church and now we've taken the plunge and added shelby to the nursery.  the first week she did great.  she was all smiles and playing.  the second week...not so much.  they told us she had a quivering lip the whole time.  but, she was happy when her daddy came to get her and she saw her "bubbas."  

this was as good as it was going to get right outside church.  pay no attention to the fact that carson's shirt was on backwards.  we had no clue.  clearly neither did he.

back at home with our clothes on the right way.

and probably my favorite picture from the day.  we changed into some play clothes and it was so nice out that the kids could wear shorts and t-shirts.  i love these shorts on shelbs.  look at those toddler legs.  i could squeeze them all day long.  



she is a hot mess.  we sure do love having her around though.  she has learned all kinds of new tricks in the last few weeks.  i feel like every day she does or says something new.  like today she decided to do a back flip off of our bed.  that was fun (for andrew, i was out with carson when she pulled this stunt).  whoever said the third child was the laid back was was w.r.o.n.g.  but boy is she fun.  and cute, she is so stinkin' cute.  just look at all that crazy blond hair.  reminds me of some one else's hair...

oh, that smile will get her daddy every time.  



little valentines

my three little loves are getting too big too fast.  all three have such different but wonderful personalities.  you can kinda see them in some of these pictures.  carson's very sweet and just has pure love for his little brother and sister.  brooks acts like he's tough and doesn't care but really he loves his older brother and the time they have together just playing and being silly.  and his baby sister, he adores.  the other day she was running around with just a diaper on and he said to me, "i just love her little belly, it's so cute!"  and miss shelby.  well she runs the show for sure.  but the look on her face when she sees her "bubbas" and daddy is priceless.  she is a princess for sure but i have a feeling she'll be about to thrown down with the best of them.

we went to the mountains for the holiday weekend and took the boys tubing at a little ski resort not too far away.  they loved it!  who wouldn't?  andrew, megan and i lugged their tubes while they sat in them up the hill every time for them.  we were exhausted!  but the boys had fun, so that's all that counts.  we even got to see some real snow falling from the sky as we were leaving on monday.  too bad it didn't come down a day or two earlier, they really wanted to play in it.  the boys still don't quite understand that we don't get snow in georgia on a regular winter basis.  so far in their lives we've had two pretty big snow storms.  they don't realized the last time it snowed like that i was in elementary school!

i did a little valentine's photo shoot with my little loves.  i just adore these sweet little faces.  i will say that trying to corral three, one being a very determined 1 year old, is like hearding cats.  it's not easy!


i love their faces in this one

they are about done with me and my camera by this point

one last attempt at holding hands....

and i lost the two boys to running around the house so it was just me and shelbs.

this face.  i could squeeze it all day long.

and then she wanted nothing to do with her hair bow or dress.  she wanted to find the boys and run around with them.